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Mar 14

Taking the “Parent” out of Grandparents

Do you remember when the first of your siblings had a baby? My older sister was the first in my family and her pregnancy was a wonderful time. We rallied around her as a family as she prepared for her new arrival and my parents excitedly settled on their new names: Nana and Papa.

What I did not know was that we should have been preparing ourselves emotionally for a whole new set of dynamics within our little group that had existed with no “new blood” for the past 28 years or so. Wow! Things were about to change.

First things first.

Having family, especially grandparents, involved in the lives of your children is wonderful. For kids it is not only an additional source of love and fun but is also another wise guiding hand during their development. For parents, grandparents can offer help and advice, financial support and the opportunity to get a break. And for grandparents, spending time with their grandchildren is a great source of joy and can provide a sense of purpose.

Win, Win, Win. And something not to be taken for granted as many do not have the gift of grandparents either nearby or interested in getting involved.

Having said that…

Learning to become a parent in the shadow of your own parents can be tough! Especially if you are as close knit and opinionated as my family (meaning we havepushy parents”).

On the lighter side, Papa was too smothering. And Nana was always scheming to take my sister’s “organic only” kids pushy grandparentsto what she called “Hal’s Health Food” but was really a donut shop. On the more serious side there were (and still are!) very different views on topics such as the power of love versus the importance of discipline. And I often found myself in the middle.

The most important thing I learned through these experiences was that everyone needed to chill out! Take it down a notch. When you do this you can actually start to understand each other’s point of view, realise you all want the best for the kids and come up with compromises. Having said that the second most important thing I learned was that it is important to set boundaries. Grandparents are not the parents so it should be clear what lines are not to be crossed.

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Mar 7

Time to Play Nice

Remember that book from the 1980’s called All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten? If you are not old Kids playing and sharing nicelyenough to remember it (cough, cough), it was all the rage and essentially said that the world would be a much better place if we remembered some of the basic things we learned when we were young: how to share, how to play fair, being nice to one another… you get the drift.

While the message was sound, I thought the book was the latest clever marketing gimmick. That was until I went back to school to get my Masters in Business Administration (MBA) and clocked that they were teaching essentially the same thing! Yes, Strategy, Marketing and Finance featured heavily on the curriculum, but a big part of business school was how to work well in teams to maximize outcomes (translation: how to play nice with others).

Turns out I could have saved a fortune on my MBA and bought the book on Amazon for $15.99! But I did pay the money and I do know how to play nice with others.  And I can prove it by sharing some top tips for teaching your kids how to play nice and share!

The first thing to know is that we, as humans, do not come out of the womb doing it naturally. Kids go through a stage where they develop their sense of self and independence and “No! It’s Mine” often comes with that. However when kids get to three or four, they are usually ready to learn the lesson of sharing.

So what do you do?

  1. Tell them – Explain why sharing is important and the benefits they will enjoy from it.
  2. Show them – Practice what you preach by sharing with your spouse, for example, and explain to your kids what you are sharing and why.  Even better, share with them!
  3. Practice with them – Look for opportunities to practice such as group games like puzzles or when playing with siblings.
  4. Reward them – When you see them playing nice or sharing well, celebrate their good efforts.
  5. Understand them – This is a marathon, not a sprint, so be patient if they are taking some time to get it or regress now and again. They will get there!

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Feb 29

Long Distance Grandparents

Over the past hundred plus years, Nana and Papa have gotten farther and farther away. In 1916, grandparents were very likely to live in the same area, if not the same home, as their grandchildren. In 2016, grandparents are not only not likely to live in the same home as their grandkids but might not even live on the same continent!

This sounds like bad news for grandparents and grandchildren alike. Grandparents get so much joy from time spent with grandkids; Children benefit from the additional love, attention and teaching from another trusted adult in their lives.

But stop the boo-hooing! The changing world not only means we are likely to live far from family, it also means that we have many new ways to stay in touch.  So grandma and grandpa…

Computer communication SOSsitterGet your tech on!

If you were not sure you wanted to Facebook or Facetime, let me be clear – you do!  Stay on top of the technology your grandkids like to use – Texting, Instagram, Twitter – and get on. Not only will you be able to learn what they are doing day to day, you are also likely to get a response if you communicate with them in the way they communicate with their friends.

Keep your old world ways!

Balance your online and offline presence in your grandchildrens’ lives. Sending letters, cards and special care packages can be one of your “special things” with your grandkids. My mother used to send a care package to her godchildren on every conceivable holiday, every year, like clockwork. They are all grown now but still talk about how they knew to run to the mailbox to look for their package.

Give virtual and in person hugs!

Schedule regular Skypes or Facetimes because nothing beats seeing each other face to face – even if on a computer. Balance this with regular visits in person.

The most critical thing to know is that it is the adults in your grandkids’ lives who are the key to the kingdom.

Whether the kids’ parents, Nanny or other support in place, they will be the ones to facilitate you staying in touch so keep a good relationship with them as well. is a Canadian portal designed to help you find local caregivers in your area, easily and quickly. The caregiver who is right for your family is only a click away.

Feb 22

Staying Close when Far Away

Luckily I do not travel for work as much as I used to but there was a time when I caught three or four flights in a kid skype computerweek. I used to say that, for me, taking an airplane was like catching a bus. Travel can be exciting but when you have kids, it can also be difficult. Here are some of our practical tips  for how to stay close when far away:

Before you go

  • Make sure you tell the kids of your plans in advance so there are no surprises.
  • Explain how long you will be away – such as two sleeps – and that you will be back.
  • Make the news fun by looking up your destination on a map or online.

While you are away

  • Plan on a call or skype at the same time every day. Find the time that works best – first thing in the morning before they head for school or every night before bedtime.
  • Send each other selfies. No special lighting or full make-up required. Just snap some fun photos of yourself as you go about your day and send them off with a quick note.
  • Introduce some fun traditions – such as sending a postcard from every city you visit which can go on a peg board in your kids’ rooms. Make this easy by keeping a stash of stamps in your suitcase, picking up the postcard before your luggage at the airport and writing them out on the way into town.
  • We would recommend staying away from a gift from every trip as this can become an expensive practice!

When you get back

  • Have something special or fun planned for when you get back home. This is not about but spending money to ease guilt, this is about spending quality time together.

Bon voyage Mom or Dad!

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Feb 16

Keeping Kids Busy

Whether it’s a holiday, PA day or a “too cold to go outside today” day, there are lots of ways to keep your kids busy when they are not in school. We have found that the best way to make these days fun – for the kids as well as for the parents, nanny or babysitter – is to plan ahead and to get your kids engaged. This means you will not be at loose ends and that your kids will have ownership for their day. There are tons of great ideas online so start Googling!  Kids cooking for fun

Some of our favourite ideas include:

  • Too cold outside? What about an indoor snowball fight? White sheets on the furniture make snow drifts and white sport socks make great snowballs. Just be sure to move that fragile and expensive vase from your mother in law out of the way before you get started!
  • Kids’ fancy dress dinner party! Nanny and the kids can plan and prepare a fancy (well – relatively fancy!) meal for the family, design the theme and invitations and even help all find the costumes by raiding closets, the Halloween collection and dress up chest.
  • Board days, not bored days! Dig out all of the old board games, the deck of cards or the puzzle you have not gotten to yet. This can provide hours of fun for the whole family!


  • The show must go on! Children’s imaginations are vast and a great way to see this in action is a play written and acted by kids. Set up a “stage” area in the living room and chairs for the audience.


  • Cookies and cakes and pies oh my! Baking is a great way to keep the kids entertained and to start teaching them about cooking. The yummy treats are the cherry on top!
  • Find your inner artist! What kid doesn’t love doing arts and crafts? If your supplies are dwindling or you just need some things that are new and fun, hit your local crafts store for inexpensive items like stickers and colour paper and glue. And then let your kids do the rest.

Let the fun begin!,

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Feb 1

Foster a Love of Music in Your Kids!

Let’s dance! Put on your red shoes and dance the blues…

Remember your first song – the song that opened your mind consciously to music? Mine was David Bowie’s Let’s Dance.

I was just reminded of it recently with the news that Bowie’s creative genius had left us. And singing that song in my head took me right back to sitting on the bottom bunk in my sister’s bedroom as she played it for me for the first time. I can see it perfectly in my mind’s eye: her green bed spread, her cassette player and my very own sister as a newly minted teenager, all as though I was there.

I was also lucky enough to be exposed to a variety of music: my Dad loved the Beatles and my Mom blared Opera and Elvis’s Blue Christmas at the holidays! We went to see the symphony. And like most kids, I complained my way through piano lessons for a good part of my childhood.

Music is powerful! It is wonderful! Helping your kids discover the gift of music is easy and has so many benefits.

Why do it?

Whilst music can encourage creativity and act as a form of expression, it is also very good for teaching discipline through the patience and constancy needed to learn a new instrument. Music can be a means for connecting with others (choir, marching band, singing in the back seat), for gaining confidence, and for retreating and feeling understood.

How do I do it?

Turn it on, turn it up, tune in; play music in the house, in the car, where ever.

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Play different types of music – pop, jazz, blues, opera, indie, folk, symphonies, rock, (kid appropriate) Hip Hop.

Sing songs you know and learn the songs your kids are singing at school.


Encourage your kids to take up an instrument.

Kids are generally (and naturally) great dancers; get some dance parties going at home.

And most of all, Enjoy! Your love and enjoyment of music will be all the inspiration your kid needs to start their own wonderful journey in life with music.

And if you are looking for another “member of your band” – whether a Nanny or pet sitter or housekeeper – auditioning and finding the right addition is easy!


Jan 25

Psst – Things your Housekeeper Would Like You to Know!

Psst… You. Yes, you!  It is time to sit down and listen to some hard truths. There are a few things your housekeeper would like you to know:

1 – I am not a mind reader!

If you would like things done in a certain way, please don’t hesitate to say so. Your housekeeper wants you to be housekeeper inspecting the jobhappy with the results of their work but they need to know if there are specific things that are important to you. Remember, your housekeeper is a professional, not a magician!

2 – I find it hard to clean around your clutter!

Unless agreed in advance, housekeepers are there to clean the house, not fold laundry or wash a sink full of dirty dishes. Further, if they are to clean, they need to be able to “get at it” so pick up dirty clothes and kids toys off the floor.  

3 – I find it hard to clean around your family!

As lovely as your family is, a housekeeper has a job to do. And sometimes doing that job is hard when the kids are playing catch in the living room. If possible, schedule the cleaner for times when the house is quiet.

4 – Your family’s fluids belong to you!

Anything intimate or gross that belongs to or comes from your family should stay with your family. For example, if your child has been throwing up all night, you should clean it up. Do not leave the soiled linens for your housekeeper. 

5 – I have views on cleaning products!

Your housekeeper is the professional so consider discussing which products work best. For example, if you are interested in going “all natural”, it is a good bet your housekeeper knows which products work and which just make you feel good.

6 – I am a person too!

Housekeepers provide an invaluable service to your family and deserve to be treated with respect.  Treat your housekeeper well by not only demonstrating that you understand the points above but also by paying a fair wage and treating them with kindness.

Burning the candle at both ends? Look for a housekeeper in your local area and take a break! You deserve it!

Jan 18

Apps for 21st Century Seniors

The other day, I was on Twitter and I was ‘tweeting’ with a woman who had some sage advice about how to deal with Untitled design (3)a cat that was peeing inappropriately. I, in turn, responded to her questions about the value of an iPhone over an android device. I decided to follow her and then checked out her profile. She was an 81 year old great grandmother from BC. Awesome, right?

It got me thinking that there are so many great apps not only for all of us but also and perhaps especially for seniors.

“Apps” or applications for our smartphones, tablets and computers have changed our lives – in a big way. Can you imagine life without Google? Netflix? Facebook? LinkedIn? Pinterest? iBooks? And the list could go on and on.

Need some ideas? Need to sell the idea to your senior loved one? Well…. There are apps to:

And so many more. Just ask an 81 year old great grandmother. She’ll tell you!

Are you looking for some in-home support such as housekeeping or help with pets or perhaps you are looking for a local caregiver to help you take care of your senior loved one? We can help.

Jan 11

Winter Pet Care

…Gone away is the bluebird… here to stay is a new bird…He sings a love song…as we go along…walking in a winter wonderland…

Imagine yourself, bundled up, taking Fido out for a walk on a cold winter’s night, snow everywhere, whistling this dog sitting in the snowclassic winter theme song… it is all so idyllic!

But is it ideal for Fido?

Maybe not. Our pets always seem so robust and able to weather any storm but actually, they need special considerations to be able to deal with frigid winter temperatures. Here are some of our top tips for keeping your beloved pets happy and healthy this cold season:


  • If your dog is an outdoor dog, ensure there is a dry warm shelter for cold winter nights
  • Animals keeping warm burn more calories so will need more food; ensure water bowls have not frozen
  • Keep fur between toes trimmed as it can attract snow and ice, watch for signs of frostbite there and on ears and tips of tails too; Consider getting a coat and booties
  • Sidewalk and driveway salt is very hard on paws so wipe them off often
  • Be aware of streams and lakes that look frozen but could be hazardous


  • Winter weather warnings should apply to pets as well; bring animals indoors when it is freezing. Make sure cat and dog doors are not frozen shut.
  • Seasonal features – such as plants like poinsettias and holly and space heaters and fireplaces – can be dangerous
  • Be aware of the impact of winter drafts on smaller caged animals such as birds
  • Animals stuck indoors will sleep more and exercise less so adjust food to reflect needed calorie intake


  • The garage should be off limits in winter as antifreeze can be deadly for your animals and cats have a tendency to slip under car hoods for the warmth of the engine
  • When out, cars can become like refrigerator so leaving your dog in the car is not a good idea

And if you cannot bear the thought of walks with Fido because it is just too cold for you, look for some help from a pet sitter in your local area who can help with the full range of your pet care needs.

Jan 5

New Year, New Nanny? Be Ready!

It is easy; some of our top tips follow:

House – ready!

With a new Nanny arriving, you will want to get your house in order. It does not require the “fresh coat of paint” that Nanny and childthe Queen of England requires but it will be easier to understand and get in synch with your systems if there is some order. And if your Nanny will be living in, be sure to make sure her room is ready – clean, fresh, and comfortable.

Nanny Notebook – ready!

What? You don’t know what a Nanny Notebook is? A Nanny Notebook is simply where you keep all the important information about your family: kids’ routines, medical information, important telephone numbers, and more.

It can be whatever you want it to be. You can also use it as a place for the Nanny to record important information, such as how much baby slept or ate.

You can make your own at home very easily, but you won’t be surprised you can even buy notebooks especially for this purpose!

Family – ready!

Your family will likely already be well aware that a new nanny is starting. Some say kids find this even easier than parents and get excited for someone new to bring fun change and adventure. Many find having the Nanny over a couple of times in advance for some structured engagement helps ease the transition for everyone. Enlist your kids to help with the tour of your home on Nanny’s first day and consider organising a fun activity for Nanny and the whole family as a nice welcome.

If you need a new Nanny but have not found one yet, you have come to the right place! We not only have a blog with all sorts of subjects important to parents today, but is also the place to find qualified nannies in your local area.  

If you are a nanny, we’ve got some tips to help make your first day a little easier!